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Phantasmagorical describes something with a dreamlike, fantastical, unreal, deceptive, or shifting appearance, like an optical illusion. Phantasmagorical is a big and relatively uncommon word, and you may encounter it more often in literary or learned contexts than in everyday conversation.

Okay I've made up my mind, my 'Word to live by.'   is Family!  of course it is, my most favourite word ever.